The 7 types of rest that every person needs

Hello everyone! This post today it comes from a lecture I have seen at TED. This platform has a series about “How to Be a Better Human”, each of which contains a piece of helpful advice from people in the TED community. But, in this case, I can share with you! This conference stared with a question: Have you ever tried to fix an ongoing lack of energy by getting more sleep — only to do so and still feel exhausted?

If that’s you, here’s the secret: Sleep and rest are not the same thing, although many of us incorrectly confuse the two.

We go through life thinking we’ve rested because we have gotten enough sleep — but in reality, we are missing out on the other types of rest we desperately need. The result is a culture of high-achieving, high-producing, chronically tired and chronically burned-out individuals. We’re suffering from a rest deficit because we don’t understand the true power of rest.

A week ago, I read in a local newspaper of Spain, an article entitled “Living to work: the exhausting loop of consulting firms, large law firms and investment banks employees and former employees of these firms describe marathon work days amid enormous stress”. In short, the article documented the model of these companies, generators of stress beyond what is healthy that threaten to drive away young talents, less and less willing to give up their personal life for several years.

So, rest should equal restoration in seven key areas of your life.

The first type of rest we need is physical rest, which can be passive or active. Passive physical rest includes sleeping and napping, while active physical rest means restorative activities such as yoga, stretching and massage therapy that help improve the body’s circulation and flexibility.

The second type of rest is mental rest. Do you know that coworker who starts work every day with a huge cup of coffee? He’s often irritable and forgetful, and he has a difficult time concentrating on his work. When he lies down at night to sleep, he frequently struggles to turn off his brain as conversations from the day fill his thoughts. And despite sleeping seven to eight hours, he wakes up feeling as if he never went to bed. He has a mental rest deficit. The good news is you don’t have to quit your job or go on vacation to fix this. Schedule short breaks to occur every two hours throughout your workday; these breaks can remind you to slow down. You can pause for some breathing exercises or a 10-15 minutes meditation. I want to invite you to read my post https://butterflyespirit.com/2021/03/15/la-meditacion-puede-cambiar-tu-vida-ii/.

The third type of rest we need is sensory rest. Bright lights, computer screens, background noise and multiple conversations — whether they’re in an office or on Zoom calls — can cause our senses to feel overwhelmed. This can be countered by doing something as simple as closing your eyes for a minute in the middle of the day, as well as by intentionally unplugging from electronics at the end of every day. Intentional moments of sensory deprivation can begin to undo the damage inflicted by the over-stimulating world. People like me, who suffer from migraine, must give great importance to this aspect.

The fourth type of rest is creative rest. This type of rest is especially important for anyone who must solve problems or brainstorm new ideas.   Allowing yourself to take in the beauty of the outdoors, even if it’s at a local park or in your backyard. Creative rest reawakens the awe and wonder inside each of us.

Now let’s take a look at another individual. It’s the person you’d call if you needed a favor because even if they don’t want to do it, you know they’ll give you a reluctant “yes” rather than a truthful “no”. But when this person is alone, they feel unappreciated and like others are taking advantage of them.

This person requires emotional rest, which means having the time and space to freely express your feelings and cut back on people pleasing. Emotional rest also requires the courage to be authentic. An emotionally rested person can answer the question “How are you today?” with a truthful “I’m not okay” — and then go on to share some hard things that otherwise go unsaid.

If you’re in need of emotional rest, you probably have a social rest deficit too. This occurs when we fail to differentiate between those relationships that revive us from those relationships that exhaust us. I call them toxic people. To experience more social rest, surround yourself with positive and supportive people. Even if your interactions have to occur virtually, you can choose to engage more fully in them by turning on your camera and focusing on who you’re speaking to.

The final type of rest is spiritual rest, which is the ability to connect beyond the physical and mental and feel a deep sense of belonging, love, acceptance and purpose. To receive this, engage in something greater than yourself and add prayer, meditation or volunteer work, or whatever you feel gives your life meaning. Although you already know me, I will tell you “who has God, lacks nothing. Only God is enough”.

As you can see, sleep alone can’t restore us to the point we feel rested. So it’s time for us to begin focusing on getting the right type of rest we need.

If you want to see the complete conference with a Dra. Saundra Dalton-Smith and her work, I leave the link:

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